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	<title>Comments on: Great Sales Habits - Talk We, Not Me</title>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://www.saleslifestyle.com/archives/great-sales-habits-talk-we-not-me/#comment-9</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 23:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tried to leave an opening Kevin, as I was sure that certain industries respond better to certain stimuli better than others.

In my industry, I would beat We like a borrowed mule ! In others, maybe yours, I would wouldn’t work nearly as well.

Thanks for giving us something to think about.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tried to leave an opening Kevin, as I was sure that certain industries respond better to certain stimuli better than others.</p>
<p>In my industry, I would beat We like a borrowed mule ! In others, maybe yours, I would wouldn’t work nearly as well.</p>
<p>Thanks for giving us something to think about.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin Sasser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin Sasser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 23:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for commenting Mike,

The value of “We Speak” is not using it to avoid responsibility and accountability but more of a tactic, and mindset, in letting the prospective client know that there is more than just “you” (the sales rep) involved in making the purchase of your solution a positive experience.

I also use We Speak in contract negotiations in the tone of “You want/need to buy my solution”, “I really want to sell it to you”, “if we work together on the pricing and contract we can make this happen”.

It took a good many losses to larger competitors before I started to be a believer in this. We were a small company (10mil in rev) vs. MSFT, IBM, and Oracle. Sometimes “We” meant my entire company.

Take care.

Sasser</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for commenting Mike,</p>
<p>The value of “We Speak” is not using it to avoid responsibility and accountability but more of a tactic, and mindset, in letting the prospective client know that there is more than just “you” (the sales rep) involved in making the purchase of your solution a positive experience.</p>
<p>I also use We Speak in contract negotiations in the tone of “You want/need to buy my solution”, “I really want to sell it to you”, “if we work together on the pricing and contract we can make this happen”.</p>
<p>It took a good many losses to larger competitors before I started to be a believer in this. We were a small company (10mil in rev) vs. MSFT, IBM, and Oracle. Sometimes “We” meant my entire company.</p>
<p>Take care.</p>
<p>Sasser</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 23:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Jan - I’m trying to learn how to not be so adamant in my comments, that’s why I put “sometimes”. ;-)

I’m inclined to agree with you, but am fairly old-school, so I’d still want the sales rep to say ” I’ll check …”

But the We/I’ll scenario seems to be better than plain ol’ We, for sure.
I’ll suggest that in some industries We is okay and in some I is a much better way.

Great discussion either way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Jan - I’m trying to learn how to not be so adamant in my comments, that’s why I put “sometimes”. <img src='http://www.saleslifestyle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I’m inclined to agree with you, but am fairly old-school, so I’d still want the sales rep to say ” I’ll check …”</p>
<p>But the We/I’ll scenario seems to be better than plain ol’ We, for sure.<br />
I’ll suggest that in some industries We is okay and in some I is a much better way.</p>
<p>Great discussion either way.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://www.saleslifestyle.com/archives/great-sales-habits-talk-we-not-me/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 23:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally, when a vendor/supplier calls on me, I expect him/her to say ” I will get back to you …” or ” I’ll check on that and …” or ” I’ll see to it that it get’s done and …”

I don’t want his/her team to be accountable for it, I want him or her to be accountable.

When a sales rep takes full accountability by saying, ” I will get it done. ” I feel WAY more secure. If he/she leaves the door to blaming someone else by saying ” We”, I look for failure, just because he/she has left a way out.
I ALWAYS tell my customers that ” I ” will see to it that the task gets done and I have tremendous loyalty from my customers because of it.

Sometimes I beats We like a drum. Sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally, when a vendor/supplier calls on me, I expect him/her to say ” I will get back to you …” or ” I’ll check on that and …” or ” I’ll see to it that it get’s done and …”</p>
<p>I don’t want his/her team to be accountable for it, I want him or her to be accountable.</p>
<p>When a sales rep takes full accountability by saying, ” I will get it done. ” I feel WAY more secure. If he/she leaves the door to blaming someone else by saying ” We”, I look for failure, just because he/she has left a way out.<br />
I ALWAYS tell my customers that ” I ” will see to it that the task gets done and I have tremendous loyalty from my customers because of it.</p>
<p>Sometimes I beats We like a drum. Sometimes.</p>
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		<title>By: Jan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2008 23:44:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It’s the accountability element that bugs me about the “WE” approach as well. Maybe a combination would work - Kevin puts that in one of his examples:

Instead of “I will check on that“, try “My team will check the details and I will report back to you.

It’s the *WE* power combined with the *I* accountability. Might be worth a thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s the accountability element that bugs me about the “WE” approach as well. Maybe a combination would work - Kevin puts that in one of his examples:</p>
<p>Instead of “I will check on that“, try “My team will check the details and I will report back to you.</p>
<p>It’s the *WE* power combined with the *I* accountability. Might be worth a thought.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Cardus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Cardus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 23:41:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The I to WE speak is something that can change your outlook the teams outlook and your potential sales increase. I often speak to leaders about changing meeting language to the We and us terms - not just when things are going bad - especially when things are going good. 

A great activity to do is count the amount of times your boss or person trying to sell you something says I or me compared to the us or we.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The I to WE speak is something that can change your outlook the teams outlook and your potential sales increase. I often speak to leaders about changing meeting language to the We and us terms - not just when things are going bad - especially when things are going good. </p>
<p>A great activity to do is count the amount of times your boss or person trying to sell you something says I or me compared to the us or we.</p>
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